How to be attractive personality

 Learn Important Social Skills

If you are only attractive on the outside, it will never be enough to move you forward in your career or help you in your closest relationships.

For this reason, it is important to sharpen up your social skills. Be Passionate About Your Work

Nobody likes to hear a ho-hum attitude or constant complaints about someone’s work or career. You can honestly explore where and how you need to improve to develop your personality.

If you start a journal, you can document the actions you are taking, solve any challenges you’re facing, and watch your improvements as you write about them.

Seeing this in black and white will make you feel proud of yourself and more confident about your personality type.

If you don’t know how to start a journal, remember that it is a very personal thing and there really is no right or wrong way. Don’t allow self-doubt or fear hold you back from initiating the steps required.

1. You’ll find that opportunities find their way to you as you put the word out that you are ready to create a new life for yourself.Once you figure out what your passion is, try to maintain a positive attitude about making the necessary changes in your life. Start A Journal

A journal is an excellent tool for self-reflection and personal growth. Lighten Up

No one is really attracted to boring and overly serious people.

Being the person who is always cautious, always the naysayer, or can’t see the humor in a situation is off-putting.

Other people enjoy having the company of someone who is light-hearted and can make them laugh.

Even during the most stressful, calamitous times during the Civil War, President Abraham Lincoln won the hearts of his cabinet and military leaders with his quick wit, lively storytelling and self-deprecating demeanor.If you learn how to add some levity while you’re having a conversation, other people will be naturally drawn to you. Be Optimistic

2. Optimism is contagious.

No one likes to be around someone who is constantly complaining or looking at the negative side of things.

Additionally, pessimism leads to learned helplessness and weakness while optimism leads to power.

People are attracted to others who can look at the bright side of things and can bring positivity to any situation, no matter how bleak it may seem.

3. Being aggressive is a big turn off to people, both in a social situation and in a professional situation.

If you have a tendency to be pushy or controlling, be honest with yourself about these unattractive qualities, and work on reining them in.

Being calmly confident and forthright about what you want or the direction you think things should go reflects leadership and resolve.

Being brash and forceful makes others resent and even avoid you.

4. Before joining a party or other social event, think about amusing things that happened during the week.

Have a couple of humorous stories ready to share when the moment is right. Don’t Doubt Yourself

Keeping cool leads to this next tip of not doubting yourself.

Remind yourself of your competence often and be positive and assertive in your decisions and actions. Try to trust your own judgment and inner wisdom, and draw from the years of experience you have to analyze how to move forward.

If you need feedback, find a few trusted mentors to give you a different perspective. But in the end, you need to make your own decisions confidently.This will make you look and feel like a leader, which is attractive in any area of your life.

5. The more successful you are in the social areas of your life, the more self-confidence you will have.

Use positive gestures when you are interacting with people and be cognizant of your body language as to not give off a negative impression.

Learn to listen empathically, look people in the eye, and reflect back to them what you hear them say.

In social settings, you’ll need to be armed with some icebreaker topics to discuss and understand the art of small talk, even if you’re an introvert.

6. Create Your Own Style:

You don’t want to be a replica of someone else — you want to be yourself.

Find the style that makes you the most comfortable and stick with it.

This is something you can explore and develop over time, so if you start to get tired of one thing, you can easily move on to something new.

You can find inspiration by looking on Pinterest, fashion blogs, or magazines to see what speaks to you.

The single most important factor in creating your style is to be true to yourself. Remaining calm rather than falling apart or flying off the handle will make you appear more emotionally intelligent and balanced.

There are certainly people in your life with whom you can share your worries and anxiety, but in most situations that are stressful, it’s better to take a deep breath and try to remain calm.

This allows you to have a clear head to make the best decisions without agitating emotions clouding your judgment.

7.  Don’t Be Aggressive

While there are plenty of times when you will want to be assertive, this does not mean that you need to be aggressive. But consistency is key so that it becomes a daily habit.

8. In fact, nothing is more contagiously attractive than someone who feels passionate and enthusiastic about what they do.

If you’re unhappy with your job or feel stuck in the wrong career, don’t complain about it while doing nothing to change your circumstances

Take action to figure out what your passion is and how you can make it work in your life. Don’t Avoid Socializing

In addition to learning social skills, you should not avoid having social interactions with other people.

If you’re an introvert, this will be a challenge, but more than extroverts, introverts need to stretch themselves to socialize so they don’t feel isolated and lonely.

Instead, seek out opportunities, attend various events, and be proactive in participating in social functions.

The more you avoid social interaction, the less attractive you will be because you will feel worse about yourself and appear to be snooty or disinterested in other people.

Your style should reflect your individuality and personality.

9. Stay Smart and Keep Cool

Have you ever heard the phrase, “Don’t let them see you sweat”?

10. Even if you are panicking on the inside during a stressful situation, try to keep cool on the outside. Talk about your passion for finding your passion, and how excited you are to explore and test the waters.

Your excitement and positivity will compel others to support and help you. Experiment with different looks, colors, accessories, and shoes.

When you feel good in your own skin, others will see your confidence and unique qualities.